Starting to understand my neurodivergent ways has been an amazing journey. But not an easy one.
But here’s a thing. I’m the database for obscure bits of knowledge. One of those being that ADHD people were really well suited to be great hunter gatherers. Our inattention leaving the harder to gather fruit to their own devices. So that natural propagation can occur. Our hyperfocus able to pay close attention for tracking and hunting. Our sensitivity able to see subtle signs to help this task.
This modern world is definitely not designed to leave me feeling supported and safe. An observation is that I feel that safe and secure people don’t make great consumers (or easily compliant employees), so maybe it has been designed that way. And it’s certainly not designed for me to live a life that is aligned with who I am.
I love the idea of seeing all that formed me as ecology. The lessons from the hard times, as important as the lessons from the easier times. The growl of rage or fear, a song to sing. I’m losing my thread now, but thank you.
Such a beautiful reflection Annie. and yes, the modern world is not designed to leave people safe and supported. I am curious how in our small communities we can start creating spaces that welcome all bodies. Always love your insights and wisdom.
Thank you sharing this! Having just received a diagnosis, you've helped to put into words what I was feeling. Hearing the diagnosis made me feel 'flat', like, 'there is more to me than that!'. I am off to ponder on my personal ecology, I'm sensing the exploration will bring the nurturing I've been seeking <3
I think this is so important - we need to look at ourselves and others holistically. We are not only our childhood experiences and the parenting we received nor the neurotype we have been diagnosed with, nor other health conditions... however for me receiving a diagnosis helped me immeasurably, because I had for so long; tried to fit in, felt exhausted trying to be societally acceptable, ashamed for thoughts and feelings I had. A thread was returned to me through diagnosis.
Although we are not defined by one singular thread in the weaving, the way they interact with each other, the strength and flexibility, the longevity and durability relies on each thread, the importance of each singular thread is amplified when joined with others.
The weaving is layered, three dimensional, each thread in community with others in such an individual way that builds the one whole person.
I adore this Laura, ' the longevity and durability relies on each thread, the importance of each singular thread is amplified when joined with others' YES...... this is carries such potency and deep bone truth.
Thank you, your article brings depth and soul to the psychological/sociological nature/nurture debate. It provides an emotionally recognisable element to this concept, providing the braids which connect us to a living, breathing, organic network of body, mind and life events. Until reading this I felt that there was often a gap in knowledge in many well-being and spiritual writings and practices. This gives those practices solid roots and the beginnings of 'whole life' understanding, the reverence all of our lives in whatever shape they are made or left unmade need.
Starting to understand my neurodivergent ways has been an amazing journey. But not an easy one.
But here’s a thing. I’m the database for obscure bits of knowledge. One of those being that ADHD people were really well suited to be great hunter gatherers. Our inattention leaving the harder to gather fruit to their own devices. So that natural propagation can occur. Our hyperfocus able to pay close attention for tracking and hunting. Our sensitivity able to see subtle signs to help this task.
This modern world is definitely not designed to leave me feeling supported and safe. An observation is that I feel that safe and secure people don’t make great consumers (or easily compliant employees), so maybe it has been designed that way. And it’s certainly not designed for me to live a life that is aligned with who I am.
I love the idea of seeing all that formed me as ecology. The lessons from the hard times, as important as the lessons from the easier times. The growl of rage or fear, a song to sing. I’m losing my thread now, but thank you.
Such a beautiful reflection Annie. and yes, the modern world is not designed to leave people safe and supported. I am curious how in our small communities we can start creating spaces that welcome all bodies. Always love your insights and wisdom.
Thank you sharing this! Having just received a diagnosis, you've helped to put into words what I was feeling. Hearing the diagnosis made me feel 'flat', like, 'there is more to me than that!'. I am off to ponder on my personal ecology, I'm sensing the exploration will bring the nurturing I've been seeking <3
I am so pleased it resonated Merryn. I hope the pondering on your own ecology was insightful.
I think this is so important - we need to look at ourselves and others holistically. We are not only our childhood experiences and the parenting we received nor the neurotype we have been diagnosed with, nor other health conditions... however for me receiving a diagnosis helped me immeasurably, because I had for so long; tried to fit in, felt exhausted trying to be societally acceptable, ashamed for thoughts and feelings I had. A thread was returned to me through diagnosis.
Although we are not defined by one singular thread in the weaving, the way they interact with each other, the strength and flexibility, the longevity and durability relies on each thread, the importance of each singular thread is amplified when joined with others.
The weaving is layered, three dimensional, each thread in community with others in such an individual way that builds the one whole person.
I adore this Laura, ' the longevity and durability relies on each thread, the importance of each singular thread is amplified when joined with others' YES...... this is carries such potency and deep bone truth.
Absolutely beautiful words and very powerful concept. Definitely rings true 🤍
Thank you my love x
Thank you, your article brings depth and soul to the psychological/sociological nature/nurture debate. It provides an emotionally recognisable element to this concept, providing the braids which connect us to a living, breathing, organic network of body, mind and life events. Until reading this I felt that there was often a gap in knowledge in many well-being and spiritual writings and practices. This gives those practices solid roots and the beginnings of 'whole life' understanding, the reverence all of our lives in whatever shape they are made or left unmade need.
Phenomenallly powerful, thought provoking, transformational 🤍🤍🤍
Thank you Nic